Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Speed Dating Advice

By Mary Bush

Here we are going to pass on some advice about the things that you should be doing when you are sitting at the meeting and talking to your speed dating "partner" and what you should do when its all over when trying to contact the singles you want.

Firstly, when you eventually start at your speed dating session, you want to make sure you are making enough eye contact, this is very important and it tells the person that you are interested in them and in the end you will get a better response from them. If you are just beginning, try not to look around too much but then again you don't really want to be accused of staring at the other person. You don't want to come across as a bit strange now do you.

Second part of our tips is to always remember to smile when you are speed dating, this is also extremely important to your success as a smile will show that you are friendly and approachable, the other single or beginner will feel a lot more comfortable speaking to you and your speed dating will go much better. Thirdly, another bit of advice is to remember to write down their contact details, such as email address, this is what you will need if you don't want to keep returning to speed dating, time after time as this will enable you to see the single/beginner again after your speed dating session.

Emailing them is usually a good way to make contact as its not too in your face and they can contact you when they have the time. Another bit of advice is to make a date with the person sometime after as you don't really want to have to start all over again at the speed dating service you were with and try to find another single or beginner to do this on. Or maybe you do. This is pretty important and is the next step towards a relationship but don't dive in their too fast.

You don't have to do any of that if you aren't comfortable with it, i mean speed dating can be loads of fun if you just want to have random dates and loads of people to meet and you don't really want a relationship. Their are lots of singles out there that do it just for the dating, my advice is to keep going at it and do what ever you are comfortable with. - 15615