Have you tried, or considered, Speed Dating, or any of the other versions out there? You might think the whole thing is ridiculous, but believe it or not, it's a lot of fun. I had thoughts of the scene in 40 Year Old Virgin in my head, but truth be told, it was nothing like that. Lucky for you, I have some tips that will help you in your endeavors.
You'll want to take care of a few things before you walk out that door though. To start, your hygiene should be tip top. You are making an impression in a short time, so it will be scrutinized even harder than normal.
Clean yourself up, trim your nails neat, clip that nose hair. But once it is done, when you are ready to walk out that door, be DONE with it, save for a pack of mints for the dating itself.
The same thing goes for your clothing. Clean obviously, but dress to impress. I wouldn't go too showy, just make yourself look good. Polish your shoes, hit the jacket with the lint brush, and take care of any details.
Another thing to do is practice before you go. Not just some lines, or routines, but spontaneity. How does one practice that? By saying what immediately comes to mind when having a conversation. That sounds crazy, I know, but practice with a friend. The result is that you sound more genuine. Put in a bit of time with this, it'll help.
Here's something I tried recently that helped a lot. I allowed myself to make as many mistakes as needed for the first date. It loosened me up and allowed me to behave more confidently the entire rest of the night, and I was far more successful than ever. It also allowed me time to gauge a few cultural difference, as I was out of town on business in Edmonton. I got a feel for the place, and a second date for the next night.
Make sure to bring a lot of positive energy to the table with you. Really amp it up. It's infectuous and you'll make a wonderful impression. People will remember you if they enjoyed your company.
You'll also be able to do a rather Machiavellian trick here. Odds are, the guy next to you is nervous, twitchy, and downright scared. In fact, it's good odds that these women will meet a boatload of guys like this. So if you aren't that way, you'll look fantastic compared to them. Enjoy yourself, engage them, smile, and have fun. Your dates will do the same!
During the conversation, you'll do far better if you show genuine interest in them, but as well, be ready to carry the conversation when they ask you a question. A good conversation should be back and forth, and neither side should feel drilled.
Also, make sure not to drink too much. This will blow your chances faster than anything. If they wanted a drunk guy, they'd hit a slum bar and do just fine. Don't be that guy.
When the time is about to run out, and you are having fun, go ahead and "close" with her. Let her know you had a great time, and that you'd love to continue the conversation. If she appears to be having fun, it should be very easy to get the next date with her.
Just remember, it's all about the first impression, and having fun, in this short period of time that you have with her. Work with what I've given you, put in your time, and you'll do well while speed dating. - 15615
You'll want to take care of a few things before you walk out that door though. To start, your hygiene should be tip top. You are making an impression in a short time, so it will be scrutinized even harder than normal.
Clean yourself up, trim your nails neat, clip that nose hair. But once it is done, when you are ready to walk out that door, be DONE with it, save for a pack of mints for the dating itself.
The same thing goes for your clothing. Clean obviously, but dress to impress. I wouldn't go too showy, just make yourself look good. Polish your shoes, hit the jacket with the lint brush, and take care of any details.
Another thing to do is practice before you go. Not just some lines, or routines, but spontaneity. How does one practice that? By saying what immediately comes to mind when having a conversation. That sounds crazy, I know, but practice with a friend. The result is that you sound more genuine. Put in a bit of time with this, it'll help.
Here's something I tried recently that helped a lot. I allowed myself to make as many mistakes as needed for the first date. It loosened me up and allowed me to behave more confidently the entire rest of the night, and I was far more successful than ever. It also allowed me time to gauge a few cultural difference, as I was out of town on business in Edmonton. I got a feel for the place, and a second date for the next night.
Make sure to bring a lot of positive energy to the table with you. Really amp it up. It's infectuous and you'll make a wonderful impression. People will remember you if they enjoyed your company.
You'll also be able to do a rather Machiavellian trick here. Odds are, the guy next to you is nervous, twitchy, and downright scared. In fact, it's good odds that these women will meet a boatload of guys like this. So if you aren't that way, you'll look fantastic compared to them. Enjoy yourself, engage them, smile, and have fun. Your dates will do the same!
During the conversation, you'll do far better if you show genuine interest in them, but as well, be ready to carry the conversation when they ask you a question. A good conversation should be back and forth, and neither side should feel drilled.
Also, make sure not to drink too much. This will blow your chances faster than anything. If they wanted a drunk guy, they'd hit a slum bar and do just fine. Don't be that guy.
When the time is about to run out, and you are having fun, go ahead and "close" with her. Let her know you had a great time, and that you'd love to continue the conversation. If she appears to be having fun, it should be very easy to get the next date with her.
Just remember, it's all about the first impression, and having fun, in this short period of time that you have with her. Work with what I've given you, put in your time, and you'll do well while speed dating. - 15615
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