Monday, March 2, 2009

Internet Dating Advice For First Timers

By Jason King

So, are you thinking about joining an online dating service for your first taste of internet dating? It can be a bit daunting when you start. If you're unsure of yourself or having second thoughts you're not alone. The good news is, it does get easier, and everything starts moving alone more smoothly. To help you get more enjoyment out of your online dating experience there are some tips below.

Honest is the best policy, and this should be from the beginning. Your profile is where you honesty should start as there's no point in fabricating the truth. Most lies will get discovered on the first date which will ruin any chances of starting a relationship. Being honest will mean you'll meet someone straight away who likes you for who you are.

A photo is a must for your profile, and will get you up to twenty times more emails than if you don't upload one. Most dating sites allow you to upload a photo. To keep on your honesty theme you should upload a recent one that shows what you look like now.

Using an old photo that shows you slimmer or with more hair will just ruin the first date. If you don't have a recent photo then do one yourself or get a friend to take one. Profiles with pictures are more likely to be viewed. It's not so much what you look like, but that with no photo is may be assumed you are hiding something.

Never share any of your personal information online. Not everyone who used a dating service is as honest as you. You should not use your last name in your profile. Your address and any other personal information should stay personal. At some point you'll meet someone that you'll want to speak with on the phone. It is best to give a cell number as this number is not tractable to an address. Once you get to know someone you can let your guard down a bit, and reveal some information about yourself.

Being nice to everyone is a big part of online dating. Due to the anonymity the internet provides, it is easy to not be so nice sometimes. If you meet someone at an online dating service that isn't nice you can easily block them from ever contacting you again.

The important thing is, you must have fun. It may take some time before you find someone you are truly interested in. If you're enjoying yourself you will end up having as much fun looking for someone as you will finding a partner. You won't click with the first person you meet, but don't let this discourage you from continuing on your love quest.

You're going to eventually meet someone you would never have met offline. Just because you're attempting to meet someone online don't let that stop you from meeting new people when you're out. - 15615

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