You just started dating, but Valentine's Day is coming. How big do you go without scaring her off? Our advice will make this male dreaded day to be stress free and fun for the both of you.
PICK A PRESENT
One of the first major Valentine's Day pitfalls to avoid is choosing an inappropriate gift. If this is one of the very first dates, you don't have to give her a gift. If you invite her out, you should pay for dinner and buy a nice bottle of wine if your budget allows it.
Flowers make a woman feel special. Call ahead and have it delivered to her address before the date. It will keep you in her mind the rest of the day plus carrying them to the door is a bit try hard. Don't be a sap with a dozen roses. A few thoughtful flowers will have you the talk of her workplace all day.
Things change when you're selecting a Valentine's Day gift if you're involved in a periodic romance situation (friends with benefits or any other relationship where sex is the focus and neither of you want or expect more). Here you can have some fun, be adventurous, and buy a gift that reflects the foundation of the relationship. This is the time to buy the gift that is risque and represents hot sex in a sexy but never insulting or degrading way. The fun, not-quite-Victoria's-Secret lingerie, the velvet handcuffs, fishnets and garter belts, videos, and sex toys.
THE DATE
With the proper gift obtained, there is still much to be done for setting up the perfect date, and you should start early. Spend the day flirting with her in text messages. Tease her, entice her, keep her excited about the special evening she will have with you. Let her know how much you are looking forward to the night, and that it is not just another date.
Today is about her. It's about the two of you. Any man can give sweet candy and roses to a girl, but how you give them to her is what makes all the difference. Just because you're doing all these things, don't forget to stay the same guy she fell for. Be playful and fun. Fascinate her mind. Her mental stimulation is far more important than any place or event you take her.
DESSERT
After dinner, invite her back to you place for a special dessert you made. Chocolate will unlock her desires. Strawberries will put her over the edge. Combine the two for a dynamite night of seduction.
TURN ON THE ROMANCE
Tickle all her senses to for the best night ever:
* An assortment of different fragrant flowers strategically placed to fill the room.
* A bottle of champagne. Not only does this stimulate taste, but touch as well as it tingles under her nose while she sips it. Keep these experiences all about sensuality, excitement and stimulation.
* A sensual body massage using some lavender oils.
It's true that a new romance is a difficult Valentine's Day to plan for because you do not want to rush a situation that needs a little bit of time to evolve. Simply stay attentive to her comfort levels and her level of attraction. Remember, ultimately there are no rules. It's about you and her creating a memorable experience. Now go have fun, and make it the best Valentine's Day for both of you! - 15615
PICK A PRESENT
One of the first major Valentine's Day pitfalls to avoid is choosing an inappropriate gift. If this is one of the very first dates, you don't have to give her a gift. If you invite her out, you should pay for dinner and buy a nice bottle of wine if your budget allows it.
Flowers make a woman feel special. Call ahead and have it delivered to her address before the date. It will keep you in her mind the rest of the day plus carrying them to the door is a bit try hard. Don't be a sap with a dozen roses. A few thoughtful flowers will have you the talk of her workplace all day.
Things change when you're selecting a Valentine's Day gift if you're involved in a periodic romance situation (friends with benefits or any other relationship where sex is the focus and neither of you want or expect more). Here you can have some fun, be adventurous, and buy a gift that reflects the foundation of the relationship. This is the time to buy the gift that is risque and represents hot sex in a sexy but never insulting or degrading way. The fun, not-quite-Victoria's-Secret lingerie, the velvet handcuffs, fishnets and garter belts, videos, and sex toys.
THE DATE
With the proper gift obtained, there is still much to be done for setting up the perfect date, and you should start early. Spend the day flirting with her in text messages. Tease her, entice her, keep her excited about the special evening she will have with you. Let her know how much you are looking forward to the night, and that it is not just another date.
Today is about her. It's about the two of you. Any man can give sweet candy and roses to a girl, but how you give them to her is what makes all the difference. Just because you're doing all these things, don't forget to stay the same guy she fell for. Be playful and fun. Fascinate her mind. Her mental stimulation is far more important than any place or event you take her.
DESSERT
After dinner, invite her back to you place for a special dessert you made. Chocolate will unlock her desires. Strawberries will put her over the edge. Combine the two for a dynamite night of seduction.
TURN ON THE ROMANCE
Tickle all her senses to for the best night ever:
* An assortment of different fragrant flowers strategically placed to fill the room.
* A bottle of champagne. Not only does this stimulate taste, but touch as well as it tingles under her nose while she sips it. Keep these experiences all about sensuality, excitement and stimulation.
* A sensual body massage using some lavender oils.
It's true that a new romance is a difficult Valentine's Day to plan for because you do not want to rush a situation that needs a little bit of time to evolve. Simply stay attentive to her comfort levels and her level of attraction. Remember, ultimately there are no rules. It's about you and her creating a memorable experience. Now go have fun, and make it the best Valentine's Day for both of you! - 15615
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