Friday, October 31, 2008

The Ground Rules Of Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back

By Esmeralda Redfield

So you lost your boyfriend and want him back.. First of all, I can go and tell you to find another guy, but hey, you are the one that has to decide!

If you are sure you want that guy back - try some or all of the methods we provide. The first and foremost rule in getting your ex back is also the most difficult: You have to find your own strength back.

Simply take a good look at yourself, and for this time don't be that tuff. Take your time to take a good look in the mirror, and compliment yourself on all the nice good things you see. (inside as well as outside!)

Relationships are constantly changing and moving while you are in them. Sometimes you may be in a strong position, sometimes you can be low (like now) A good way to get an ex boyfriend back is by looking at the situation you are in. Did you slagg off compared to before? Use that knowledge to resolve this issue!

If getting back to the old ways is not a short term possibility, this method will still help you to get back a bit of your pride and confidence. More importantly: If your ex boyfriend hears about it, he will be "not amused"!

Another big point is avoiding contact with him whenever you can. (At first)

Are you a phone addict? He probably isn't! Remember that (straight) guys are not so "into" discussing relationships as girls are. So keep away from over exposure phone wise.

And of course, if you keep calling this guy - How will he ever get a chance to miss you? This is a battle, so know that your chances only improve when you don't call him and don't answer his calls. He must think you have "plans"!

And after all - That's what you are trying to achieve! Try to give him the idea that he is missing out on something, and he will be coming back for more.

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