If you can put society's somewhat blinkered and reactive view aside for just one minute, just ignore it, then you might realize that using dirty talk inside a relationship between two consenting and involved people can actually do a lot to deepen the bond.
If you learn how to talk dirty to your partner and you do it right and do it even passably well, you can actually revive and energize a flagging relationship or a relationship that is just trundling along.
But be careful, don't go launching into a long drawn out story that would make any romantic author proud. First of all, work out in your head which is the right approach and the wrong approach to take with your partner.
So step 1 - decide just how dirty or raunchy your partner is likely to go and stay just under that fine line.
I mean, if your partner is the type to save fluffy animals from raging rivers whilst penning an ode to the natural beauty of motherhood - it is unlikely they are going to be able to take the new, verbally daring you as a smooth step of the day. More likely they'll pass out and need bringing round with a warm towel and smelling salts!
Work out what sort of things your partner finds erotic - not lusty - erotic, there is a huge difference here. Think less brazen and more suggestive, half hidden as opposed to fully exposed!
Use a soft voice and gentle approach and set your dirty talk at a level where you know they'll still be comfortable but also intrigued.
Lean in close, let them feel your presence without bearing over them, let them sense you as opposed to actually feel you, smell you and let them feel the faintest tickle of your warm breath as you murmur dirty talk into their ear.
Make sure that you 'monitor' their progress as you talk. See their reactions and judge their enjoyment from this. If they relax more, close or half close their eyes and have a small smile on their lips - I think you are getting to them! If they go rigid like a plank and try edging off the bed, switch to a lower level of talk, become more romantic and less dirty.
Get them in the mood, use the charm that they fell in love with in the first place to good effect and have them desperate to hold you again.
So - what are you waiting for? - 15615
If you learn how to talk dirty to your partner and you do it right and do it even passably well, you can actually revive and energize a flagging relationship or a relationship that is just trundling along.
But be careful, don't go launching into a long drawn out story that would make any romantic author proud. First of all, work out in your head which is the right approach and the wrong approach to take with your partner.
So step 1 - decide just how dirty or raunchy your partner is likely to go and stay just under that fine line.
I mean, if your partner is the type to save fluffy animals from raging rivers whilst penning an ode to the natural beauty of motherhood - it is unlikely they are going to be able to take the new, verbally daring you as a smooth step of the day. More likely they'll pass out and need bringing round with a warm towel and smelling salts!
Work out what sort of things your partner finds erotic - not lusty - erotic, there is a huge difference here. Think less brazen and more suggestive, half hidden as opposed to fully exposed!
Use a soft voice and gentle approach and set your dirty talk at a level where you know they'll still be comfortable but also intrigued.
Lean in close, let them feel your presence without bearing over them, let them sense you as opposed to actually feel you, smell you and let them feel the faintest tickle of your warm breath as you murmur dirty talk into their ear.
Make sure that you 'monitor' their progress as you talk. See their reactions and judge their enjoyment from this. If they relax more, close or half close their eyes and have a small smile on their lips - I think you are getting to them! If they go rigid like a plank and try edging off the bed, switch to a lower level of talk, become more romantic and less dirty.
Get them in the mood, use the charm that they fell in love with in the first place to good effect and have them desperate to hold you again.
So - what are you waiting for? - 15615
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