Part 1: Long-term relationship (searching for a wife)
Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.
Words. You may be fond of your hardworking habits or your past victories with women, but those are the least things you want to show in your profile. She will not be attracted to you if you will tell her that you are here because you are a tired workaholic or, even worse, tired womanizer. Make your text neat and to the point, describe only the major features of your character, your interests in life and desires, the rest must be left for a chat with interested party.
Bait. This is the key content of your profile and it should be tuned to the type of a woman you are looking for. It should give her an idea on what sort of life is awaiting for her, if she will choose you. You can write, for example: On our honeymoon trip I will take you to Spain, where we will explore together the treasures of Prado and adrenaline of a bullfight! Or , perhaps, you are environmentalist and you need a soul mate, then forget the corrida, say My last three-day hike in Sangre de Cristo Range was a real revelation, I cannot imagine my life without a tent, backpack, and mountain trail. So, are you getting the point? Here is the last example, I just dream about waking up in my Malibu house from the laughter of our children and barking of our dogs: this is my vision of happiness! She will get the message.
Part 2: A brief romance (just some good time)
Your picture Anything that will tell her that you are an attractive, easy-going, kind and fun person, who will not load her with his problems and will give her one or two weeks of a great time will be OK here. You and your chopper? Fine. You are getting tan on Ipanema beach? Great. You are dancing French cancan during intermission between the dinner and show in Moulin Rouge with prima Galyna K.? Hope she would not mind that too.
Letter You dont have to reveal in this text any depths of your personal life. She should know though, that with you she will get a brief but sweet romance, and that is all. However, you cant just say that you are looking for a bed partner. Any woman, even if she is exactly on the same page with you, will not like that. Some emotional element is important for women in any relationship. So avoid telling her upfront what it is all about.
Temptation You can promise nice evenings at a sunset and coffee in bed in the morning. Keep in mind that woman will forgive you the fact that you needed her as a friend without long-term pledges, as long, as you will conduct yourself like a knight. This will be much better than promising her "golden mountains in the valley of love" and leaving her after first night, dropping coldly "I will call you".
Good luck. - 15615
Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.
Words. You may be fond of your hardworking habits or your past victories with women, but those are the least things you want to show in your profile. She will not be attracted to you if you will tell her that you are here because you are a tired workaholic or, even worse, tired womanizer. Make your text neat and to the point, describe only the major features of your character, your interests in life and desires, the rest must be left for a chat with interested party.
Bait. This is the key content of your profile and it should be tuned to the type of a woman you are looking for. It should give her an idea on what sort of life is awaiting for her, if she will choose you. You can write, for example: On our honeymoon trip I will take you to Spain, where we will explore together the treasures of Prado and adrenaline of a bullfight! Or , perhaps, you are environmentalist and you need a soul mate, then forget the corrida, say My last three-day hike in Sangre de Cristo Range was a real revelation, I cannot imagine my life without a tent, backpack, and mountain trail. So, are you getting the point? Here is the last example, I just dream about waking up in my Malibu house from the laughter of our children and barking of our dogs: this is my vision of happiness! She will get the message.
Part 2: A brief romance (just some good time)
Your picture Anything that will tell her that you are an attractive, easy-going, kind and fun person, who will not load her with his problems and will give her one or two weeks of a great time will be OK here. You and your chopper? Fine. You are getting tan on Ipanema beach? Great. You are dancing French cancan during intermission between the dinner and show in Moulin Rouge with prima Galyna K.? Hope she would not mind that too.
Letter You dont have to reveal in this text any depths of your personal life. She should know though, that with you she will get a brief but sweet romance, and that is all. However, you cant just say that you are looking for a bed partner. Any woman, even if she is exactly on the same page with you, will not like that. Some emotional element is important for women in any relationship. So avoid telling her upfront what it is all about.
Temptation You can promise nice evenings at a sunset and coffee in bed in the morning. Keep in mind that woman will forgive you the fact that you needed her as a friend without long-term pledges, as long, as you will conduct yourself like a knight. This will be much better than promising her "golden mountains in the valley of love" and leaving her after first night, dropping coldly "I will call you".
Good luck. - 15615
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