Sunday, November 30, 2008

How You Can Flirt With a Man Anywhere

By Sheryl Ingwer

Flirting is just a way of making a person know that you are interested in them. The men are the ones who like flirting a lot; the ladies also flirt but trust them to do it discreetly. If you were to be very observant you might even conclude that the ladies flirt more than than men! If you are going to flirt you had better arm yourself with some flirting techniques. They are very important.

You will certainly succeed in your attempts to flirt by following a few of these tried and successful techniques.One flirting technique that works well with men is to ask for help.This boosts their confidence level and makes them feel more at ease with you, in turn they will become more conversational , which is to your advantage.And always remember use his name for a more personal touch.

This way you will be sending the message that you did not forget the person's name and that you are genuinely interested in the person. You have to admit that if someone says your name especially when you like them you feel great. If you are sitting with them make sure you do some of the actions they do, notice I said some and not all of them. If the person crosses his legs or rubs his arms you should also do the same. These are very great flirting techniques.

Another method used in flirting is to get a persons attention by telling them you have a secret. Once they are interested in what you have to say ,lean towards them and whisper something silly or complimentary.This will let them know you are interested in them and not just being friendly.

It is very important not to whisper something that is offensive in any way. This is because if you do, you can be sure of not seeing the person ever again. Do not think that men are sexual creatures and so you can whisper something sexual and get away with it. Even men get disgusted with some sexual moves. If you cannot avoid whispering something naught and dirty you had rather not use these flirting techniques.

Smiling is a great way to brighten up everybody's day, and is something we should all practice. It's even a great technique for flirting! Use your smile and you will be pleasantly surprised by people's reactions.

A good way to flirt with someone is to give them a nice smile. This will help initiate confrontation and let them know you want them to come over and talk to you. Once they acknowledge your smile, start counting how many seconds it takes them to get to you. Smiling will not only make other's happy, but also make you feel good too. - 15615

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